WHILE I certainly understand the emotional situation by Abandoned Father in “Ensure
dads get access to their kids, too” (The Star, Sept 11), I would like to
bring out matters from a child’s view point.
First of all, it is worth to highlight what Roger Tan, a senior lawyer and a
member of the Bar Council, wrote in a major newspaper column on June 15:
“I sincerely hope that parents of such children will reflect upon this and spare
a thought for their children because children are never to be blamed when a
marriage breaks down.
“The children’s interest must always be of paramount consideration, and it is
inhuman to punish and dump them when they reach 18 all because the marriage
between the adults fails to work out.
“Having brought them into this world, we as parents do not only owe it to
ourselves and our children but also to the creator in fulfilling our parental
duties on this earth.”
In my opinion, there is no such thing as a happy divorce, especially when
children are involved. It is painful and distressing. It is even more
heartbreaking when the children are at a tender age.
The helpless child is most likely to blame themselves when parents do not get
along. Sometimes, the situation can get so ugly over custody rights and
maintenance issues that the matter ends up in the court and in the full glare of
the media.
Now I say, don’t turn a blind eye to the plight of children.
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